今天是2013 年的第一天。应该要是全新的生活。
但是，我的交往了7年的男友选择今天，跟我坦白。
坦白之前隐瞒我的任何东西。
其中一个是我最介意的，他曾经跟一个女生＂聊过天＂（对我来讲是属于暧昧关系），是什么都可以谈的那种，包括我跟我男友之间的问题（我到现在才知道他当时觉得我们有问题，很可恶，第三者还了解我们的问题）。我很不喜欢2 个人的感情有第三者来插手。
最恐怖的是，我认为很爱我，很专一的男友，原来不是那么的爱我。我们感情原来是那么的脆弱，那么容易让第三者进入。
虽然讲是2 年前的事，但是我不知道为什么我心里还是觉得不舒服，其实我很心痛，很不开心。我很怕我告诉他我介意的话，他以后不会再对我坦白。我不懂应该跟谁讲，我不想让别人知道我们的事情。我很烦！
虽然昨天那一刻，真的还在想结婚的事，今天知道种种事情后，我怕我走不到到结婚那一天。因为我们的感情已经有裂痕了。我很怕结婚后，如果有第三者，他还是把持不住。
虽然他讲他跟那女的没任何进展，只有聊天和一次单独喝茶。但是我心里还是有一个刺。因为她是最了解我的他 。我真的输了。很想放弃这7年的感情！
Wednesday 2 January 2013
Tuesday 23 August 2011
You're such a Gentlemen.
I read an article online and love it so much, therefore I would like to share out. After reading, I'm thinking of whether my bf is a gentlemen. And, my answer would say YES (sometimes maybe). Hmm.. At least he will put the chair for me in a restaurant although we are almost 6 yrs long relationship. I know I am so mean, all girls love nice guy right.. Lol.. Do look on the article below la, is a nice one.
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Here are 10 practical reminders to help us raise "gentlemen" in our families through their respectful attitudes, words and actions!
1) Gentlemen have respectful attitudes which lead to respectful actions and words. They greet people with a smile, nod or "hello" as they pass people. Their attitude is one of putting others first - based on The Golden Rule... to treat others the way they would like to be treated.
2) Gentlemen use respectful words: "Please" "Thank You" "You're Welcome" and "Excuse Me." Instead of "What?" and "Huh?" they say "Pardon me?" They say "Yes Ma'am" and "No Sir" respectfully. They never use cursing or cussing words. Gentlemen also have the courage to use difficult words like, "I'm Sorry" "I made a mistake" and "Will You Forgive Me?"
3) Gentlemen open doors for Ladies and allow them to pass through first, saying, "After you!" All children open the door for their elders.
Gentlemen walk a Lady to the car and open the car door for her.
4) A Gentleman offers his seat to a Lady. Gentlemen should offer their seat to their elders or pregnant women in crowded buses or waiting rooms. Never be seated until your mother is seated. (I was humbled and thrilled to find out that the distinguished, elderly gentleman who had offered me his seat one day in Seattle for basketball's "Final Four" tournament was the legendary UCLA Basketball Coach, John Wooden!)
5) A Gentleman helps a Lady put on her coat or sweater. He also offers to help carry heavy packages for a lady. Children offer to carry the bags for their mothers. If the lady drops something, the gentleman will pick it up for her.
6)Gentlemen stand when a Lady enters the room or when he is introduced to someone.
7) Gentlemen seat a Lady at the dinner table before they seat themselves. They rise when ladies excuse themselves and when they return.
8) The gentleman takes care of the lady to his right.
9) The Gentleman protects a Lady from danger. He walks on the curb side of the road as a courtesy of protection and to keep the lady from getting splashed by puddles. He also stands behind a lady on an escalator going up; and in front of her going down to protect her from falling. He walks down a dark theatre aisle first and the lady will follow.
10) A Gentleman will never EVER hit or hurt a Lady. A boy must never hit or hurt a girl, but rather use his strength to protect a girl.
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Have a nice day!
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Here are 10 practical reminders to help us raise "gentlemen" in our families through their respectful attitudes, words and actions!
1) Gentlemen have respectful attitudes which lead to respectful actions and words. They greet people with a smile, nod or "hello" as they pass people. Their attitude is one of putting others first - based on The Golden Rule... to treat others the way they would like to be treated.
2) Gentlemen use respectful words: "Please" "Thank You" "You're Welcome" and "Excuse Me." Instead of "What?" and "Huh?" they say "Pardon me?" They say "Yes Ma'am" and "No Sir" respectfully. They never use cursing or cussing words. Gentlemen also have the courage to use difficult words like, "I'm Sorry" "I made a mistake" and "Will You Forgive Me?"
3) Gentlemen open doors for Ladies and allow them to pass through first, saying, "After you!" All children open the door for their elders.
Gentlemen walk a Lady to the car and open the car door for her.
4) A Gentleman offers his seat to a Lady. Gentlemen should offer their seat to their elders or pregnant women in crowded buses or waiting rooms. Never be seated until your mother is seated. (I was humbled and thrilled to find out that the distinguished, elderly gentleman who had offered me his seat one day in Seattle for basketball's "Final Four" tournament was the legendary UCLA Basketball Coach, John Wooden!)
5) A Gentleman helps a Lady put on her coat or sweater. He also offers to help carry heavy packages for a lady. Children offer to carry the bags for their mothers. If the lady drops something, the gentleman will pick it up for her.
6)Gentlemen stand when a Lady enters the room or when he is introduced to someone.
7) Gentlemen seat a Lady at the dinner table before they seat themselves. They rise when ladies excuse themselves and when they return.
8) The gentleman takes care of the lady to his right.
9) The Gentleman protects a Lady from danger. He walks on the curb side of the road as a courtesy of protection and to keep the lady from getting splashed by puddles. He also stands behind a lady on an escalator going up; and in front of her going down to protect her from falling. He walks down a dark theatre aisle first and the lady will follow.
10) A Gentleman will never EVER hit or hurt a Lady. A boy must never hit or hurt a girl, but rather use his strength to protect a girl.
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Have a nice day!
Monday 22 August 2011
Random it
I am so lazy to study. I got a progress test for P1 paper this week, I haven't study any single word. I'm gonna to fail it, I guess.
Hmm...
Hmm...
Random post here..
I got an Ipad2 from my boy. This is the most expensive stuff he presented me since we get together. The reason he bought it is bcz he got no time to teman me. Lol.. Yet, he want me to be happy. Sweet, my dear.. Btw, thank you very much.
Okay, i should stop "Sai Ming" here..
Back to my life, I need friends seriously, I got no new friends in my recent college, my only friend is atika.. So bored.. Reason being is bcz everyone coming in a gang and of course ACCA students hv no life.. Will this continue to my future career? No pls..
Hmm...
Hmm...
Random post here..
I got an Ipad2 from my boy. This is the most expensive stuff he presented me since we get together. The reason he bought it is bcz he got no time to teman me. Lol.. Yet, he want me to be happy. Sweet, my dear.. Btw, thank you very much.
Okay, i should stop "Sai Ming" here..
Back to my life, I need friends seriously, I got no new friends in my recent college, my only friend is atika.. So bored.. Reason being is bcz everyone coming in a gang and of course ACCA students hv no life.. Will this continue to my future career? No pls..
Wednesday 20 July 2011
Latest Update
Hello my blog. And, Hello my buddies.
I did not do any recent updates in my blog since... long long time ago..
I am so fine here. Although I'm like so free (as in I am graduated and not working),I felt so tired & sleepy now. zzzZZ...
A common question that everyone will ask ME after I graduated: What is ur next step? Work or Study?
Answer: Yes, my final decision is to further study, study what? --> ACCA (a professional level paper). This is So hard, so hard to make a perfect decision for my future... I am full time study for 2 papers of ACCA, and I am not working for this half yr. Now, my plan is to enjoy life for another 6 mths and then work hard for my rest of life. Sound sad, right?
But then I hv well-planned for this 6 mths. I wil do 2 papers of ACCA in this half yr and then exam in DEC. After exam, travel to HK for 2 weeks, and coming back in Jan 2012. And then Chinese New Yr.. And then, find job to work plus do ACCA part time. Well planned? I hope YES, =C
So how's ur life recently? Busy looking for Job? Busy for study ACCA as well? Or even lucky u found a job? Anyhow All the best, and let's keep in touch.
I did not do any recent updates in my blog since... long long time ago..
I am so fine here. Although I'm like so free (as in I am graduated and not working),I felt so tired & sleepy now. zzzZZ...
A common question that everyone will ask ME after I graduated: What is ur next step? Work or Study?
Answer: Yes, my final decision is to further study, study what? --> ACCA (a professional level paper). This is So hard, so hard to make a perfect decision for my future... I am full time study for 2 papers of ACCA, and I am not working for this half yr. Now, my plan is to enjoy life for another 6 mths and then work hard for my rest of life. Sound sad, right?
But then I hv well-planned for this 6 mths. I wil do 2 papers of ACCA in this half yr and then exam in DEC. After exam, travel to HK for 2 weeks, and coming back in Jan 2012. And then Chinese New Yr.. And then, find job to work plus do ACCA part time. Well planned? I hope YES, =C
So how's ur life recently? Busy looking for Job? Busy for study ACCA as well? Or even lucky u found a job? Anyhow All the best, and let's keep in touch.
Friday 8 July 2011
Wednesday 22 June 2011
A must place to visit in Langkawi
I would says, Langkawi is a small island, easy to travel by following the map provided.. We rented a MPV and travel the whole Langkawi ourselves, so there's no worries even you dont have a GPS with you. And now, I would like to introduce some nice must go place to you when you are planning to go Pulau Langkawi.
#1. Cenang Beach
The first things you will think of Langkawi forsure is Beach. Cenang Beach is the most famous beach in Pulau Langkawi.. Then followed by Pantai Tengah. We didnt go pantai tengah, But I heard that Pantai Tengah is much more quite than Pantai Cenang, so suit the family. Honestly, I dont really like Pantai Cenang, as thr r more on commercial activities. It is not recommended to swim in the sea as there has jelly fish. But we cannot deny that there are unlimited fun in Pantai Cenang.
Parasailing priced around RM 55 per pax.. Do survey the price around first before hop in because various company thr which offer different price.
Jet-skiing, is pricey. RM90 for 15 minutes.
Banana Boat, priced RM10 per person
However, we get offered a package price of RM55 per pax for Parasailing and banana boat.
Night time, you may shop at Pantai Cenang as the entire beach road is lined with shops and stalls on both sides. These shops sell mostly souvenirs in the form of fashion accessories, beads, handicrafts and merchandise but there are also many convenience stores.
#2. Langkawi Cable Car
The Cable Car system is the latest tourist attraction for Langkawi and is located at the Oriental Village. Nothing much to say about this. You may see nice view from the top, but dont expect for cool wind, bcz it is hot still under the big sun. RM30 per pax for the entrance fee, not really worth it, but do it once a life la. Haha..
#3. Telaga Tujuh/ Seven wells
If you are a waterfall lover, you must visit Seven well. It is so beautiful and clean water. There are two parts of the Waterfalls. The bottom part of the waterfall is nice but there are too many stones, dangerous and hard to play around. The peak of the waterfall is the most beautiful part, I was in love with it. There are a lot of orang putih, haha...Hoever, there are some adventurous trek to reach the peak, take a long climb to the top of the waterfalls. It was tiring, but once arrived at the top, the quaint vista of the landscape is absolutely stunning and actually, it cannot be restricted in words. Thus, to put in succinct terms, Telaga Tujuh is a wonderful place to visit on your trip to Langkawi.
This is the view of the 1st waterfall. You can clearly see the big stones.
So we can only rest and relax.
You will see this on ur way to the peak of the waterfall. Can you imagine how many steps we climbed?
Up to the peak, so called 'Seven well'. Pretty nice waterfall.
Clean water and can easy see through the stones under.
#4. Kuah Town
Kuah Town is Langkawi’s main town, as well as the entry point for ferry from either the mainland or from Penang. The town isn’t really all that big, but you’ll be able to do some shopping over at the Eagle Square (Dataran Lang), the Langkawi Fair or at the various bazaars at the center of Kuah. This is a great place to pick up duty free goods, such as liquor, beer and chocolate.
There are lots of duty free shops around Kuah town. It is strongly advise to do survey before buy the duty free goods as some shops will offer cheaper goods. And, all duty free shops are nearby, which is a 2-3 minutes walking distance. I recommended 'Coco Valley' as their price is quite reasonable and somehow cheaper than other duty free shops.
#5. Helang Square
Dont Forget the trademark of Langkawi Island, the Big Big Helang.
And, take a group picture in front of it to prove that you came Langkawi before.
#5. Hotel rooms
Last but not least, it is a must to buy some beers and liquor to your hotel room and enjoy the duty free goods with lovely friends.
We didnt drink much.. I think is a waste la bcz beer and liquor are the cheapest goods in Langkawi. Drink beer is cheaper than a mineral water, ie, Carlsberg=1500ml mineral water.
Carlsberg Can - Small RM1.60
Hoegaarden Bottle RM3.50
Heineken Bottle RM2.50
Poker card is alwasy paired with beers. Cheers, peeps...
Done!
#1. Cenang Beach
The first things you will think of Langkawi forsure is Beach. Cenang Beach is the most famous beach in Pulau Langkawi.. Then followed by Pantai Tengah. We didnt go pantai tengah, But I heard that Pantai Tengah is much more quite than Pantai Cenang, so suit the family. Honestly, I dont really like Pantai Cenang, as thr r more on commercial activities. It is not recommended to swim in the sea as there has jelly fish. But we cannot deny that there are unlimited fun in Pantai Cenang.
Parasailing priced around RM 55 per pax.. Do survey the price around first before hop in because various company thr which offer different price.
Jet-skiing, is pricey. RM90 for 15 minutes.
Banana Boat, priced RM10 per person
However, we get offered a package price of RM55 per pax for Parasailing and banana boat.
Night time, you may shop at Pantai Cenang as the entire beach road is lined with shops and stalls on both sides. These shops sell mostly souvenirs in the form of fashion accessories, beads, handicrafts and merchandise but there are also many convenience stores.
#2. Langkawi Cable Car
The Cable Car system is the latest tourist attraction for Langkawi and is located at the Oriental Village. Nothing much to say about this. You may see nice view from the top, but dont expect for cool wind, bcz it is hot still under the big sun. RM30 per pax for the entrance fee, not really worth it, but do it once a life la. Haha..
#3. Telaga Tujuh/ Seven wells
If you are a waterfall lover, you must visit Seven well. It is so beautiful and clean water. There are two parts of the Waterfalls. The bottom part of the waterfall is nice but there are too many stones, dangerous and hard to play around. The peak of the waterfall is the most beautiful part, I was in love with it. There are a lot of orang putih, haha...Hoever, there are some adventurous trek to reach the peak, take a long climb to the top of the waterfalls. It was tiring, but once arrived at the top, the quaint vista of the landscape is absolutely stunning and actually, it cannot be restricted in words. Thus, to put in succinct terms, Telaga Tujuh is a wonderful place to visit on your trip to Langkawi.
This is the view of the 1st waterfall. You can clearly see the big stones.
So we can only rest and relax.
You will see this on ur way to the peak of the waterfall. Can you imagine how many steps we climbed?
Up to the peak, so called 'Seven well'. Pretty nice waterfall.
Clean water and can easy see through the stones under.
#4. Kuah Town
Kuah Town is Langkawi’s main town, as well as the entry point for ferry from either the mainland or from Penang. The town isn’t really all that big, but you’ll be able to do some shopping over at the Eagle Square (Dataran Lang), the Langkawi Fair or at the various bazaars at the center of Kuah. This is a great place to pick up duty free goods, such as liquor, beer and chocolate.
There are lots of duty free shops around Kuah town. It is strongly advise to do survey before buy the duty free goods as some shops will offer cheaper goods. And, all duty free shops are nearby, which is a 2-3 minutes walking distance. I recommended 'Coco Valley' as their price is quite reasonable and somehow cheaper than other duty free shops.
#5. Helang Square
Dont Forget the trademark of Langkawi Island, the Big Big Helang.
And, take a group picture in front of it to prove that you came Langkawi before.
#5. Hotel rooms
Last but not least, it is a must to buy some beers and liquor to your hotel room and enjoy the duty free goods with lovely friends.
We didnt drink much.. I think is a waste la bcz beer and liquor are the cheapest goods in Langkawi. Drink beer is cheaper than a mineral water, ie, Carlsberg=1500ml mineral water.
Carlsberg Can - Small RM1.60
Hoegaarden Bottle RM3.50
Heineken Bottle RM2.50
Poker card is alwasy paired with beers. Cheers, peeps...
Done!
Monday 20 June 2011
A week
A week... A week before today was a very meaningful week I had. It was tired but I am happy with it. Sadness will be only on my purse.. Pity her... Bocor besar..
Do some preview here first, will update soon and more picture coming soon in FB. Stay tune.
First one, 3 days 2 nights Langkawi Trip from Mon to Wed with the lovely Taylorian. This will be considered as our graduation trip. Our gang with 8 pretties and 1 lonely guy.
Waterfall is loved =)
Singapore trip was my second trip of the week.. The trip was 1 day after the langkawi trip, it was really tiring, leg pain, muscle pain is killing me now.. I was with my besties in Singapore for 3 days 2nights as well.. To conclude the trip, Singapore is a nice place to stay due to the race issue.
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